Height DOES Matter!

As you are reading this, just think as regards to couples around you. You will find that generally men are taller than their women. Now ask yourself, Is it just a coincidence?

Actually I think not!

Again, take a look at most women, you will find that most women love high heels. Now ask yourself, is it just for the sake of heals? Or does height really matters?

Actually I think it does!

To begin, it’s obvious that height (I mean more that 175 cm) is a masculine characteristic. The taller the man, the more dominant he appears. He appears to provide more protection to his woman and future children, where height is usually positively associated with authoritative behavior.

The more dominant the man appears, reflects much femininity on woman. It makes women feel like whom they naturally are, “women”. They are the queens, and want a king...and height is a way of showing “king” status. This explains why women usually have less willingness dating shorter men.

In fact, women usually are not all with basketball players, the fact that many other characteristics matter here, what I have referred before as the “full package”.

Instead of choosing the tallest man, a woman usually tries to sacrifice a bit in reward to other characteristics by choosing a man just taller than her!

To me it’s OK to find someone just taller, but it’s not accepted to be with someone shorter than me. I would rather feel being the “man” in the process. But to be clear, this wouldn’t mean that I renounce the other 100 characteristics I’m looking for! I guess it makes sense now!

What about you?

Your Height Please?!

Daydreaming or Nightdreaming?

It has just come to my mind. Which is more enjoyable daydreaming or night dreaming? Which one do you prefer? Although they are really two separate things but at the end, they are both dreams not reality.  For me I would like one side in each. Daydreaming is the one that can be controlled, creating your own world using fantasies and thoughts, but the one disadvantage is that it’s rapidly interrupted by a call that brings you back to real world. Night dreaming is the one that you have no control over but seems more real. It’s a great pleasure if the dream can match one of your real dreams but what’s worse is that it can be turned into nightmares where you have no control over the outcomes or may be very silly things you feel bored with.  A bad dream may also follow you all over the day leaving you in a depressed mood all the day. I can remember a night dream that always followed me when I was in my first elementary grades. I used always to dream that my shoes was lost at school and spend all the night searching for it, which was really very bothersome to me, the fact that I never find it! :p It was my enduring long lasting nightmare!

The best I can say here is that I love daydreams that carry on to night dreams! In such way I can live the best of both, where I can have control in the beginning shaping all what I like then continue to live the actual experience at night. Here it would look perfect I think until you realize that it’s just a dream…COME ON!

Be free to share your experience :)