Who do you believe to be more complicated a man or a woman?
At the first glace I have said it depends on the individual
(you can’t compare apples to banana :p). But for me, at full blast, I think I am
probably more complicated than men :$.
Women are often labeled as complicated in our society. To men
it looks common since they are not one of them and usually know very little
about women so that they do not understand them that much. To women it’s also a
common thought since they fail many times to interpret their feelings or
actions. But what exactly make them give the impression of being more
complicated?
Women are usually known to think with their hearts rather
than their minds, which make them very emotional, the fact that makes them be
more complicated. They are easily tricked and can be hurt easily when they face
problems with their personal relationships and get disappointed when they do
not have their emotional needs fulfilled.
Also women today tend to perform multiple roles of being the lover, the
wife, the mother, the daughter, the sister and the professional, which creates
a large burden on them making their behaviors more complicated and their lives
more complex. Men agree that women usually care a lot about minor and
unimportant issues which could mean nothing to a man. This would leave a woman
disappointed when she’s not understood and a man wondering what the matter is.
Moreover many times you could notice that the woman could never forget anything
that bothered her once which could interfere with her present and future life
which is rarely the case with a man. Also
a woman cares a lot about her outer appearance and would like to be always the
center of attention which might also explain why she looks complicated many
times. A man fails occasionally from time to time to understand a woman failing
again and again to give a right answer. If a woman asks her man concerning her
weight or whether she looks fatter, the man absolutely, extremely, totally
fails this question. If he says “no” then he would be called a liar, and if he
says “yes” he would be left alone for his lack of feelings, outlook, interest
and attention! A woman would rarely tell
her man exactly what’s wrong. She only tries to give some secret codes wishing
and expecting him to understand, where the complication starts when her wish
does not come true!
Lastly, we can say that every complication can be turned
into a simpler one just by deep understanding of such matter to make any relationship
more meaningful.
1 comment:
if you ask these questions to men they usually answer that women need a "book" to understand them. on the contrary, women will answer that all men are the same, complicated and out of control. For me, I'm the complicated one and not my husband. most Often,he tries to understand me but I make my life complicated:( I have to work on my weakness.
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